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Hey Beautiful people! You know yellow is one of my favorite colors. Yellow makes my skin look amazinnng. (I  had to emphasize that. lol). I've been gone for a while now and words cannot express how sorry I am. I've been so busy with things (such as; sitting on my bed and scrolling through Instagram to see how amazing other people's lives are and how I continue to procrastinate and feel insecure). Btw..... I will be touching on HOW TO BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM. 

Before I get into that topic, Let me walk you through today's outfit. I'm wearing this yellow top that I got on sale at Urban Planet. I've been so obsessed with Urban Planet after I saw this beautiful Black female cashier wearing nice red pants from there. I walked up to her to ask her where she got the pants from and she replied "Urban Planet", with a smile on her face. We became friends instantly but sadly I forgot to get her Instagram username, it's okay though. 

After getting the top, I went to H&M to get a matching beret which I found without any issue. For the skirt, your girl went to Value Village thrift store (as usual) and I got this cute size 0 skirt. Funny enough, I am size 10 but I had to destroy the skirt and DIY (Do It Yourself). The thigh high boot is from Ego, It's been 2 years since I got this and it's worth it. I Tell Ya!!!

To continue with the topic (SELF-CONFIDENCE), the first question that pops to my brain is - What is Self Confidence? Self-confidence means "your personal power". Yes, you read that right!. Everything comes from you, your judgment, your capability, your achievement, your success, your ability, your belief, your opinion, your decision, your happiness, your worth, your EVERYTHING!. Below are lists of how to build "your personal power"

➰ DO NOT CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY/ THINK: people will always talk and this will never end. It is then up to you to choose to care or not. Special announcement, It's not their life, It's your life!! 

➰ KNOW YOUR SELF, KNOW YOUR WORTH: You need to know that you are worth it. You are THAT BITCH!, You are THAT GUY!, If anyone does not acknowledge you, It's okay, It's dammmmnn okay. You do not need anyone to tell you that you are beautiful, You do not need anyone to tell you that the outfit looks good on you. You can always go to the mirror and do so. Self-love is the key. 

➰ ITS OKAY TO MAKE MISTAKES: in order to grow, you need to learn from your past mistakes. You need those failures to know how you can make things better when you try again. I can't remember where I got this quote but it says "if you are going through hell keep moving, because the real question is Why stop in hell?

➰ ATTRACT POSITIVITY, KILL NEGATIVITY: this explains itself. You attract whatever you receive. If you attract positivity, you receive positivity (positive life, good things and scrolling through Instagram to see how creative people are and how you can do the same). On the other hand, If you attract negativity, you receive negativity (negative comments, scrolling through youtube to see how other people are "living their best life" and how you lay on your bed procrastinating on when you will start your own youtube channel). 



                                                                                     Top:  Urban Planet
                                                                                     Beret: H&M

                                                                                     Skirt: Value Village Thrift Store

                                                                                     Glasses: MzKay Collection

                                                                                     Earrings: Forever 21

                                                                                    Thigh High Boots: Ego Shoes


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